Describe what happened, or ask whether something would be reasonable.
Dials (set by the text, drag to override):
Intensity
Mild → meltdown
50
Cost to others
None → major
50
How fixable
Permanent → trivial
50
Whose fault
Theirs → actor's
50
Actual harm
None → serious
50
Stakes
Trivial → life-shaping
50
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A rule-based toy, not real advice. It reads keywords and weighs six factors — it doesn't actually understand your situation. For anything that matters, ask a person.